Even if you cannot admit it, we all judge people with little things such as hairstyle. Do the test! Look at some random pictures of hair styles and tell me what you would think of someone who is having having long hair styles? You may think he is a hippie, or some hardcore music band singer! If you see someone wearing a celebrity hair styles, you will most likely think this person is what we call "emo-kid".
At a job interview, it's better to not have bridal hair styles even if it's look good. Employers may think you are not serious or too focused on your appearance. It's the same with african american hair styles, which are not accepted in some public working places. You can even be refused to enter a bar if you don't fit the clients inside.
The short hair styles is a popular hair cut hair styles for men. Some men also like to have medium length hair styles which is now very accepted almost everywhere, depending the attitude that comes with them!
So if you think you have no success with people, maybe you could consider changing your wedding hair styles for something more... standard!